Who Goes To Heaven? Do Only Good People Go To Heaven?

Many believe that they've done enough good to go to heaven, but who goes to heaven? Do only good people go to heaven?

Who is Good?

If you ask a person on the street if they're a good person, almost every one of them will tell you, "Yeah, I'm a pretty good person," and then they'll give you what is supposed to be evidence of that, by telling you about a few circumstances where they helped someone out or did some good things, but what does the Bible say about the goodness of man? Are there any people that we can say are really "good?" Does doing good things for others count for anything? Can it help us in our relationship with God? Yes and no, but that will be made clear later. A friend of mine was with me when we ask a man on the street if he thought he was a good person and good enough to go to heaven. He didn't think he was a good person but said, "I'm great person! The ladies love me," so that's when I thought, this man doesn't understand that none of us are good. We might do some good things, but so can a thief or bank robber. I doubt very seriously the good things he did in his life will help him in front of a judge. Neither will the excuse, "Well, I was deprived as a youth, my mother didn't really love me," or, "It's the way I was raised, so it's my parents fault" work on judgment day.

None are Good

If you think that there are good people out there, by our human standards, yes, there are many, but it's the biblical view we want, and we are asking, "Do good people go to heaven?" and that critical question deserves an answer. The Apostle Paul quotes the psalmist in writing, "as it is written: None is righteous, no, not one" (Rom 3:10). I think Paul and the Psalmist both say, "no, not one" because the guy we met on the street thought he was the one exception, but there are no exceptions. We all fall infinitely, and I would say, impossibly short of God's glory (Rom 3:23). That's too far a bridge for us to gap by ourselves. We need the cross of Christ, so works not done for Christ won't help you at all. In fact, many will claim good works as evidence of their faith, as in the case of Matthew 7:21-23 where many (not a few) will say, "Lord, Lord," but these same many will be turned away forever. It is only when a person's been regenerated by the Spirit of God into a new creation (2nd Cor 5:17) that they can do any good works for Christ, but not to be seen by others, but as unto Christ Himself (Matt 25:40). The dangers of not doing anything for someone who claims to be a believer are clear that those who do nothing for Christ will end up separated from God forever when Jesus tells them, "Truly, I say to you, as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to me.' And these will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life" (Matt 25:45-46), so "faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead" (James 2:17).


Comparing Ourselves

We like to compare ourselves with others, don't we? I know I have, and others have done the same thing with me, my children, and other people I know, but are people the right standard before God? I'm certainly not a standard for someone to live up to. Its Christ Who is the supreme example for our lives. We must imitate Him, and not others. You can pick up on godly attributes of others, but it's Christ that is the gold standard for what God desires in us. The Apostle Paul says that should not "dare to classify or compare ourselves with some of those who are commending themselves. But when they measure themselves by one another and compare themselves with one another, they are without understanding" (2nd Cor 10:12). It's fine to live up to what others do but to use others to compare ourselves as to whether we're a good person or not is flawed to begin with. The excuse I hear is, "Well, at least I'm not as bad as Joe Smith down the street who did such and such," but Joe is not our standard….we need the very righteousness of God. We might not have done as much bad as Joe, and compared to him, we might look like saints, but Joe is not the standard.

The Importance of Works

James would tell you that works have a lot to do with our faith, and in particular, whether it's real faith or it's an imagined faith. We don't want to be deceived about this, and we know the hearts susceptible to this (Jer 17:9), so this is why James thought it important to write, "If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, "Go in peace, be warmed and filled," without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead" (James 2:15-17). That's as if we see someone in need and we can help, but we only say, "I'm so sorry, I will pray for you," and then do nothing. That person's deceived and their faith is dead. What's worse, their dead faith won't help them on the Day of Judgment. Jesus was once asked by someone how they might do the works of God, and Jesus told them, "This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent" (John 6:29). That's the only work you can really do to be saved, and it's essentially putting your trust in Christ after having repented.

Conclusion

No one is good outside of Christ. Our works are nothing more than filthy rags to God (Isaiah 64:6), but that doesn't mean we don't do any works at all. That would contradict Scripture. Someday, "the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me" (Matt 25:34-36). What's the difference in these works and the works we do on our own? Jesus says, "Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me" (Matt 25:40). When we do things for others but do them for Christ and not to be seen by others, He will reward us with the sweetest words we'll ever hear: "Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master" (Matt 25:21). This is infinitely greater than hearing, "Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me no food, I was thirsty and you gave me no drink, I was a stranger and you did not welcome me, naked and you did not clothe me, sick and in prison and you did not visit me" (Matt 25:41-43).

Calling God

Hello God, I called tonight
To talk a little while.
I need a friend who'll listen
To my anxiety and trial.

You see, I can't quite make it
Through a day just on my own.
I need your love to guide me,
So I'll never feel alone.

I want to ask you please to keep
My family safe and sound.
Come and fill their lives with confidence
For whatever fate they're bound.

Give me faith, dear God, to face
Each hour throughout the day
And not to worry over things
I can't change in any way.

I thank you God for being home
And listening to my call,
For giving me such good advice
When I stumble and fall.

Your number, God, is the only one
That answers every time.
I never get a busy signal,
Never had to pay a dime.

So thank you, God, for listening
To my troubles and my sorrow.
Good night, God, I love You too,
And I'll call again tomorrow!

Inspirational Verses for Biblical Communication in Marriage

As a person of faith, you know that the bible is your rock, your mainstay where you can return to find inspiration, hope, and faith when life gets difficult. The bible also offers a practical and useful guide for many aspects of life – and many of the thoughts and ideas expressed there are applicable to even the most modern relationship.
The bible is also a wonderful tool for improving the communication in your marriage. Within its pages you will find many inspirational verses, some of which are directly about marriage, and some of which are not, but all of which can be used to inspire a healthier and more open hearted connection between you and your spouse.
If you’re looking for some inspiration, why not take some time today to contemplate these inspirational bible verses to help with a more biblical approach to communication in your marriage (verses taken from English Standard Version).

The power of companionship

Genesis 2:18-25 tells us that “Then the Lord said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”” This teaches us that God intended for humans to have companionship and someone to lean on when they needed it. Companionship is such a vital and beautiful part of marriage. A strong marriage means you will never be truly alone, or lonely, because you know your partner is always there for you. Stay open and loving and you’ll be able to communicate clearly and gracefully no matter what life throws your way.

A good home life is important

Proverbs 14:1 tells us that “The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down.” If you want a healthy marriage with great communication, start by looking at your home life. It sounds old fashioned, but your home really does matter. A clean, welcoming home that is a pleasure to be in helps contribute a positive, calming atmosphere to your life. On the other hand, a home of mess and chaos makes you feel more stressed out.  Work together on keeping your home delightful for you both – maybe it’s time to tick off some of those DIY projects you’ve had in mind for a while?

Put your marriage first

Mark 10:09 says “What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” Your marriage should be one of the most important things in your life. You’re partners for life and you’ve committed to sharing your home and your life together. Honor that by making sure your marriage is one of your top priorities. No matter how busy you both get with life, work, family, or unwanted outside drama, don’t let it shake you from the core of your marriage. There’s nothing wrong with turning to a trusted friend or family member if you need advice, but in general try to keep your marriage private and don’t share your problems with other people.

Be mindful of your words

Proverbs 25:11-15 reminds us that “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.” This is a wonderful verse to contemplate to help you build better communications in your marriage. Words are at the heart of all communication, and the words you choose can help or hurt any situation. Whenever you have an issue or a conflict comes up, think carefully about what you choose to say to your partner about it. Look for means of expression that are gentle, kind, honest and true, and try to avoid accusations, sarcasms, and words intended to wound.

Practice the art of listening

James 1:19 tells us “Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.” The art of listening is often overlooked these days, but it has the potential to change your marriage on a deep level. When you learn to truly listen, you ensure your partner feels heard and validated, and you get a deeper and truer glimpse into their heart and motivations. Listen openly and without judgment and you’ll grow closer to each other and communicate better as a result.

Don’t forget to ask the lord

James 1:5 reminds us that “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” If you are facing communication problems in your marriage, remember the Lord is always there and you can always turn to him. Offer your worries to him in prayer and let him speak words of wisdom and comfort into your heart. If your partner is a fellow person of faith, you might like to pray or read the bible together. This is a wonderful way to grow closer as a couple, while growing in your faith.
The bible is a rich resource of inspiration and guidance. Turn to it today and let it steer your course towards a richer and more loving marriage.

Spice Up Your Relationship

Relationships are always tough, and things don’t get any easier as time goes on. You don’t get any better at it just because you’ve been on the job longer. With most long-term relationships, there are going to be periods of ennui and speed bumps of tedium along the way. Wandering eyes can also become a problem when anyone spends the bulk of his time with just one person. The most important thing is to be aware of the inevitable lulls or moments of doubt, and to make a plan to counteract them. Just because you’ve been together a long time doesn’t mean you can’t still have fun being in the relationship.

We’ve all heard that a relationship “takes work,” but what does that mean exactly?
Frankly, it sounds like drudgery.  Who wants to spend hours at an office only to come home to job number two?  Wouldn’t it be more pleasant to think of your relationship as a source of comfort, fun, and pleasure?
Of course it would.  That said, here are some basic fixes if things feel stagnant, if the good times are becoming few and far between, if arguing is your main form of communication, or if you just feel that you need a tune-up.  And they might even be enjoyable.
1. Don’t argue over money : It’s practically a guaranteed relationship killer.  If you haven’t yet had a conversation about how money is earned, spent, saved, and shared, do it now.  Try to get an understanding of how each of you sees your financial life, and where the differences are.  Then address them.
2. Try not to focus on trifles : Is it worth fighting about?  More to the point, is it really a trifle?  Often a seemingly minor issue is a manifestation of a larger problem.  Talk about what’s really bothering you, instead of how loud the TV is.
3. Share your thoughts: Your hopes.  Your fears.  Your passions.  Let your partner know who you really are.  Set aside some time each day just to talk about the things that are important to each of you, as individuals.
4. Be friendly: Treat your partner the way you’d treat a good and trusted friend: with respect, consideration, and kindness.
5. Resolve arguments together: When couples fight, it’s all too easy to get locked into a win/lose dynamic.  Think of your disagreement as a problem for you both to solve, not a fight for you to win.  Think of saying “we” before giving into the temptation of casting blame on the other person.
6. Show affection daily: Sex is one thing.  Holding hands, a hug, a squeeze on the arm – all create connection and trust.  If you’re not getting as much attention as you want, let it be known.
7. Focus on the positive: What do you appreciate about your partner?  What first attracted you?  What do you treasure about your life together?
8. Be supportive: Nothing kills a buzz like a negative or absent response to something you’re enthusiastic about.
9. Words plus deeds: Saying “I love you” carries much more weight when you consistently do things that your partner values.
10. Recognize that all relationships have ups and downs: Think long-term.  Your relationship is an investment, like the stock market.  Ride out the down times.  With the right kind of attention, they will be temporary.
11. Respect each other when arguing: It is all too tempting to use whatever ammunition you’ve got in the heat of battle.  Ask yourself, where will it get you?  A partner who is likely to come to your side, or one who will get even more defensive?  Ask your partner how he or she sees the problem.
12.Have each other’s back: and let that be known.
13. Set goals as a couple: Talk about how you want your relationship to look in a year, five years, ten years.  Then work toward that goal.
14. Make your partner a priority: That is why you’re in this relationship in the first place.

21 tips to been successful

1. Challenge yourself.

Richard Branson says his biggest motivation is to keep challenging himself. He treats life like one long university education, where he can learn more every day. You can too!
2. Do work you care about.

There’s no doubt that running a business take a lot of time. Steve Jobs noted that the only way to be satisfied in your life is to do work that you truly believe in.
3. Take the risk.

We never know the outcome of our efforts unless we actually do it. Jeff Bezos said it helped to know that he wouldn’t regret failure, but he would regret not trying.

Related: The 3 Key Elements to Make Your Business a Success
4. Believe in yourself.

As Henry Ford famously said, “Whether you think you can, or think you can’t, you’re right.” Believe that you can succeed, and you’ll find ways through different obstacles. If you don’t, you’ll just find excuses.
5. Have a vision.

The founder and CEO of Tumblr, David Karp, notes that an entrepreneur is someone who has a vision for something and a desire to create it. Keep your vision clear at all times.
6. Find good people.

Who you’re with is who you become. Reid Hoffman, co-founder of LinkedIn, noted that the fastest way to change yourself is to hang out with people who are already the way you want to be.
7. Face your fears.

Overcoming fear isn’t easy, but it must be done. Arianna Huffington once said that she found fearlessness was like a muscle -- the more she exercised it, the stronger it became.
8. Take action.

The world is full of great ideas, but success only comes through action. Walt Disney once said that the easiest way to get started is to quit talking and start doing. That’s true for your success as well.
9. Do the time.

No one succeeds immediately, and everyone was once a beginner. As Steve Jobs wisely noted, “if you look closely, most overnight successes took a long time.” Don’t be afraid to invest time in your company.
10. Manage energy, not time.

Your energy limits what you can do with your time, so manage it wisely.
11. Build a great team.

No one succeeds in business alone, and those who try will lose to a great team every time. Build your own great team to bolster your success.
12. Hire character.

As you build your team, hire for character and values. You can always train someone on skills, but you can’t make someone’s values fit your company after the fact.

Related: 7 Reasons Rock Star Entrepreneurs Hit Home Run After Home Run
13. Plan for raising capital.

Richard Harroch, a venture capitalist, has this advice for upcoming entrepreneurs: “It’s almost always harder to raise capital than you thought it would be, and it always takes longer. So plan for that.”
14. Know your goals.

Ryan Allis, co-founder of iContact, pointed out that having the end in mind every day ensures you’re working toward it. Set goals and remind yourself of them each day.
15. Learn from mistakes.

Many entrepreneurs point to mistakes as being their best teacher. When you learn from your mistakes, you move closer to success -- even though you initially failed.
16. Know your customer.

Dave Thomas, the founder of Wendy’s, cited knowing your customer as one of his three keys to success. Know those you serve better than anyone else, and you’ll be able to deliver the solutions they need.
17. Learn from complaints.

Bill Gates once said that your most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning. Let unhappy customers teach you where the holes in your service are.
18. Ask for customers’ input.

Assuming what customers want or need will never lead to success. You must ask them directly, and then carefully listen to what they say.
19. Spend wisely.

When you spend money on your business, be careful to spend it wisely. It’s easy to spend too much on foolish things and run out of capital too soon.
20. Understand your industry.

Tony Hsieh, the founder of Zappos, once said, “Don’t play games you don’t understand, even if you see lots of other people making money from them.” Truly understanding your industry is key to having success.
21. Deliver more than expected.

Google's Larry Page encourages entrepreneurs to deliver more than customers expect. It’s a great way to get noticed in your industry and build a loyal following of advocates.

Being a successful entrepreneur takes a lot of work, a lot of vision and a lot of perseverance. These 21 tips, from entrepreneurs who have already found success, will help you navigate the path much more easily.

5 Real Life Tips For Success

While we are all busy in our own ways, we all also have the same amount of time to work with each and every day. While some have more responsibilities than others, it is still amazing to see how some people are able to get more out of their days than others. But how does this happen when we are all so busy? Many times, the problem lies in our inability to be as productive as we want to or need to be. It can be difficult to figure out how to be successful and how to make the most of the time that you have. Here are some real life tips for success that productive and effective people use to get the most out of their time and their lives.

Prioritize

Make sure that you prioritize the activities or projected you need to take on for the day. Determine how important each task is to determine which things need to get done first. This is one of the best ways to increase your effectiveness to help promote growth not only in your personal life but your professional life as well. If you look at each event based on how it can impact the growth or profitability of your organization then you can start getting more out of your day. Prioritizing your schedule is a great way to make sure your daily activities will help you work towards your long term goals.

The Great Ones Sweat the Small Stuff

Most people have heard the phrase ‘don’t sweat the small stuff.’ However, if you talk to truly successful people, you will find that they do in fact sweat the small stuff. In fact many of the truly great successful individuals pay a great deal of attention to the small things. Remember that your smallest habits impact your future each and every day. Most successes and failures in life are actually the result of small errors in judgment over time, not large mistakes. All of your daily actions, even the smallest ones, can become a habit that over time helps take you further or farther away from your goals.

Know the Difference Between Being Efficient and Effective

There is a difference between being efficient and effective. They are both equally important, but you need to know the difference between how you can be effective with your actions and get the most out of the actions you do complete and how you can be efficient with your time and get the most out of the time that you put in. The great Peter F. Drucker once said, “There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all.” Focusing on doing things that make you effective in a manner that is efficient is one of the best ways to find success.

Flood Your Mind with Positive Input

Positive thinking can go a long way for those who are looking to be more successful. Remember to fill your mind with positive and educational input as often as you can. Listen to positive and educational materials, especially in the mornings, to help get you in a more positive and productive mindset. If there are topics you want to learn about, read at least five books on that topic so that you are truly flooding your mind with positive and informative information on that topic. Make sure that you are also protecting your mind from negative influences so that the positive ones can have more of an impact.

Focus on Solving the Big Problems

In life, you will find that people are often rewarded for the size of the problems that they can solve. The bigger the problem you are able to solve, the further you can advance. Keep this in mind, when it comes to tackling issues and problems in your personal and professional life and you will see the impact it can have on your success.

Life is like a journey on a train

Life is like a journey on a train with its stations, with changes of routes and with accidents! At birth we boarded the train and met our parents, and we believe they will always travel on our side. However, at some station our parents will step down from the train, leaving us on this journey alone. As time goes by, other people will board the train; and they will be significant i.e. our siblings, friends, children, and even the love of our life. Many will step down and leave a permanent vacuum. Others will go so unnoticed that we don’t realize that they vacated their seats! This train ride will be full of joy, sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, goodbyes, and farewells. Success consists of having a good relationship with all the passengers…requiring that we give the best of ourselves.
The mystery to everyone is: We do not know at which station we ourselves will step down. So, we must live in the best way – Love, forgive, and offer the best of who we are. It is important to do this because when the time comes for us to step down and leave our seat empty, we should leave behind beautiful memories for those who will continue to travel on the train of life without us. I wish you a joyful journey for the coming years on your train of life. Reap success, give lots of love and be happy. More importantly, be thankful for the journey! Lastly, I thank you for being one of the passengers on my train!

 

Shake off Your Problems


A man’s favorite donkey falls into a deep precipice. He can’t pull it out no matter how hard he tries. He therefore decides to bury it alive.
Soil is poured onto the donkey from above. The donkey feels the load, shakes it off, and steps on it. More soil is poured.
It shakes it off and steps up. The more the load was poured, the higher it rose. By noon, the donkey was grazing in green pastures.
After much shaking off (of problems) And stepping up (learning from them), One will graze in GREEN PASTURES



HIGHWAY ANGELS

I was driving home from a work when my car started to choke and sputter and died.
I barely managed to coast, cruising, into a gas station, glad only that I would not be blocking traffic on the highway and would have a somewhat warm spot to wait for the tow truck. It wouldn't even turn over. Before I could make the call, I saw a woman walking out of the "quickie mart" building, and it looked like she slipped on some ice and fell into a gas pump! So I got out to see if she was okay. When I got there, it looked more like she had been overcome by sobs than that she had fallen. She was a young woman who looked really haggard with dark circles under her eyes. She dropped something as I helped her up, and I picked it up to give it to her. It was a nickel.
At that moment, everything came into focus for me: the crying woman, the ancient Suburban crammed full of stuff with 3 kids in the back (1 in a car seat), and the gas pump reading $4.95. I asked her if she was okay and if she needed help, and she just kept saying "I don't want my kids to see me crying," so we stood on the other side of the pump from her car. She said she was driving to California and that things were very hard for her right now.
So, I asked, "And you were praying?" That made her back away from me a little, but I assured her I was not a crazy person and said, "He heard you, and He sent me."
I took out my card and swiped it through the card reader on the pump so she could fill up her car completely, and while it was fueling, walked to the next door McDonald's and bought 2 big bags of food, some gift certificates for more, and a big cup of coffee. She gave the food to the kids in the car who attacked it like wolves, and we stood by the pump eating fries and talking a little.
She told me her name and that she lived nearby. Her boyfriend left 2 months ago, and she had not been able to make ends meet. She knew she wouldn't have money to pay the rent January 1st, and finally, in desperation, had called her parents, with whom she had not spoken in about 5 years. They lived in California and said she could come live with them and try to get on her feet there.
So she packed up everything she owned in the car. She told the kids they were going to California for Christmas but not that they were going to live there.
I gave her my gloves and a little hug and said a quick prayer with her for safety on the road. As I was walking over to my car, she said, "So, are you like an angel or something?"
This definitely made me cry. I said, "Sweetie, at this time of year, angels are really busy, so sometimes God uses regular people."
It was so incredible to be a part of someone else's miracle. And of course, when I got in my car, it started right away and got me home with no problem. I'll put it in the shop tomorrow for a check, but I suspect the mechanic won't find anything wrong.

Hate Anyone

A young lady named Sally relates an experience she had in a seminary class given by her teacher, Dr. Smith. She says that Dr. Smith was known for his elaborate object lessons. One particular day, Sally walked into the seminary and knew they were in for a fun day.
On the wall was a big target, and on a nearby table were many darts. Dr. Smith told the students to draw a picture of someone that they disliked or someone who had made them angry, and he would allow them to throw darts at the person's picture.
Sally's friend drew a picture of a girl who had stolen her boyfriend. Another friend drew a picture of his little brother. Sally drew a picture of a former friend, putting a great deal of detail into her drawing, even drawing pimples on the face. Sally was pleased with the overall effect she had achieved.
The class lined up and began throwing darts. Some of the students threw their darts with such force that their targets were ripping apart. Sally looked forward to her turn, and was filled with disappointment when Dr. Smith, because of time limits, asked the students to return to their seats. As Sally sat thinking about how angry she was because she didn't have a chance to throw any darts at her target. Dr. Smith began removing the target from the wall.
Underneath the target was a picture of Jesus. A hush fell over the room as each student viewed the mangled picture of Jesus; holes and jagged marks covered His face, and His eyes were pierced.
Dr. Smith said only these words, "In as much as ye have done it unto the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto Me." Matthew 25:40
No other words were necessary; the tears filled eyes of the students focused only on the picture of Christ.

Helping Others

Once there was a small boy named Shankar. He belonged to a poor family.  One day, he was crossing through the forest carrying some woods. He saw an old man who was very hungry.  Shankar wanted to give him some food, but he did not have food for his own.  So he continued on his way.  On his way he saw a deer who was very thirsty.  He wanted to give him some water, but he did not have water for himself.  So he went on his way ahead.  Then he saw a man who wanted to make a camp but he did not have woods.  Shankar asked his problem and gave some woods to him.  In return, he gave him some food and water.  Now he went back to the old man and gave him some food and gave some water to the deer. The old man and the deer were very happy.  Shankar than happily went on his way.
However, one day Shankar fell down the hill.  He was in pain but he couldn’t move and no one was there to help him.  But, the old man who he had helped before saw him, he quickly came and pulled him up the hill.  He had many wounds on his legs.  The deer whom shankar had gave water saw his wounds and quickly went to forest and brought some herbs.  After sometime his wounds were covered.  All were very happy that they were able to help each other.

Moral: If you help others, then they will also help you. 

Fear vs Respect

Long time ago very cruel king name Virat Singh was ruling the city of Vijay Nagar. All citizens were fearful because of his cruelty.
Virat has a dog named Jack, which he used to love more than anything, one fateful morning Jack died. Virat Singh organized last rituals for dog; entire city came to cremation ground. Virat Singh was very happy to see that people love him so much and he felt he is the most popular king in the world. After few days Virat Singh died, but no one came for his funerals.

Moral: Respect is something you have to earn, you cannot force it on others to respect you. There is a thin line between Fear and Respect, every one of us should understand it and do necessary corrections in our personalities.

As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime can break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not.
He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. “Well,” trainer said, “when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.”
The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were.
Like the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before?

Moral: Failure is a part of learning. We should never give up the struggle in life. You Fail not because you are destined to fail, but because there are lessons which you need to learn as you move on with your life.

GOALS

Sometimes you don't need a goal in life, you don't need to know the big picture. You just need to know what you are going to do next!!

A TIME IN LIFE

At a time in life, you get to a point,
A point to learn from your mistakes,
A point to leave your past behind you,
A point to see ahead and dream,
A point you dump inferiority complex and feel superior,
A point you learn to make your own decision,
A point you take hold of the wheel and steer your life,
A point you never have to be ungrateful for,
Start this very moment, pause and think what you really need to do,
Think of just being happy and what to do about it,
Think of loving yourself even the more,
And think of giving back good...

Stay blessed...

I Wish You Enough

Mother Daughter Emotional Stories, Inspirational Stories, Heart Touching Stories, Pictures, Motivational Stories

Recently, I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments together at the airport as the daughter’s departure had been announced. Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the mother said: “I love you and I wish you enough.”
The daughter replied, “Mom, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Mom.” They kissed and the daughter left.
The mother walked over to the window where I sat. Standing there, I could see she wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on her privacy but she welcomed me in by asking, “Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?” “Yes, I have,” I replied. “Forgive me for asking but why is this a forever good-bye?”
“I am old and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is the next trip back will be for my funeral,” she said. When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, “I wish you enough.” May I ask what that means?”
She began to smile. “That’s a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone.” She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail and she smiled even more.
“When we said ‘I wish you enough’ we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them”. Then turning toward me, she shared the following, reciting it from memory,
I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.
I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.”
She then began to cry and walked away.

Nurture Relationships…..As they say….It takes a minute to find a special person ~ An hour to appreciate them ~ A day to love them ~ And then an entire life to forget them.

Beautiful story…..A very poor man lived with his wife.



One day, his wife, who had very long hair asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed.
The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken. She did not insist on her request.
The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife.
He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.
He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut.
She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.
Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.

MORAL: To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love,that is EVERYTHING. Never take love for granted.

One day a dull

One day a dull and exhausted by the illnesses and burdens of life peasant came to the wise man. He sat in front of the wise man, who gave him a heartfelt and warm smile. The peasant breathed out heavily letting out a wave of mourning. He began complaining about his life, that he has a hard burden that he doesn’t see a bright daylight at all, it’s like one problem falls on his head or the other – they have twisted him between the grindstones so much that he can’t even breathe in some fresh air. Later, he began blaming all of his relatives, who, in his opinion, were guilty for his misfortunes, whether the circumstances didn’t turn out right for him, or something else.
The wise man listened to him in silence, and when the peasant once again contritely inquired the wise man, why is it so unfair, what should he do and how to find peace, the wise man got up from his seat and invited the peasant to follow him.
They came out of the hut and went to a lakeside, which was not far away and where from time to time flying fishes were jumping, trotting fast above the surface, catching food.
The wise man led the peasant to the lakeside and said to him:
“Do you see the smoothness of the lake? The depths are full with life. There are fishes that always stay in water, and if suddenly the lake got polluted, they couldn’t see further their own nose, they would hardly recognise where the source of the pollution was, and they would keep swimming in circles. And there are also fishes that got wings and they can rise above the water of the lake, looking at it from the heights of their flight. So this is my advice: instead of complaining about your life, come to this lakeside from time to time, watch the flying fishes and try to understand what I wanted to say to you.”

Think

If you think positively
Sound becomes Music
Movement Becomes Dance
Smile Becomes Laughter
Mind Becomes Meditation
And Life Becomes a Celebration….
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It is difficult to think positively in challenging situations and times. One little secret can be of help during these times. Pause before reacting. That is the Power of response. Once you take a pause…you can bring the entire subconscious mind into play…. You will be amazed to see your own positivity when you start practicing this simple but so powerful technique….Indeed Good times become better and Bad times become Less Good :-) …. Life goes on to be a Celebration!!!!!
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Who or What do we love more?

A man was polishing his new car; his 4 yr old daughter picked up a stone and scratched on the side of the car. In anger, the furious Man took his child’s hand & hit it many times, not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.
When the child saw her father, with painful eyes he asked ‘Dad when will my fingers grow back?’ The man was so hurt and speechless. He went back to the car and kicked it many times. Devastated by his own actions, sitting in front of the car he looked at the scratches, His daughter had written ‘LOVE YOU DAD’.

Moral: Remember, Anger and Love have no limit.  Always remember that “Things are to be used and people are to be loved”.  But the problem in today’s world is that “People are being used & Things are being loved”.

Fox and The Goat

Once a fox was roaming around in the dark. Unfortunately, he fell into a well. He tried his level best to come out but all in vain. So, he had no other alternative but to remain there till the next morning. The next day, a goat came that way. She peeped into the well and saw the fox there. The goat asked “what are you doing there, Mr. Fox?”
The sly fox replied, “I came here to drink water. It is the best I have ever tasted. Come and see for yourself.” Without thinking even for a while, the goat jumped into the well, quenched her thirst and looked for a way to get out. But just like the fox, she also found herself helpless to come out.
Then the fox said, “I have an idea. You stand on your hind legs. I’ll climb on your head and get out. Then I shall help you come out too.” The goat was innocent enough to understand the shrewdness of the fox and did as the fox said and help him get out of the well.
While walking away, the fox said, “Had you been intelligent enough, you would never have got in without seeing how to get out.”
Moral: Look before you leap.  Do not just blindly walk in to anything without thinking